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who is alive and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever,
James 3: 1-12 – Taming the Tongue
Mark 8: 34 – 38
‘Let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me’
Jesus makes it very clear that following him appears costly – if you measure it in human terms. The call to self-denial would seem to be the complete opposite of the animal instinct of survival of the fittest – that life is a competition for food, comfort and power that only the strongest can win. Although the proponents of what is called a ‘Prosperity Gospel’ would subscribe to such a way of life, it doesn’t look to be ‘self-denying’ – ‘self-important and self-centred’ would be closer to the case.
On the other hand, typically, as humans tend to do, the exercise of self-denial is often taken to the extreme, becoming self-punishment. Extended fasting, Hair shirts, self-mortification and suchlike are seen as ways to purge a sinful nature – the more self-deprived, the closer to God. Except that, in a way, that too can be equally self-centred – you might call it ‘competitive humility’.
I believe that what Jesus is asking is the recognition of equality with all His people – with the consequence that the needs of others are to be placed before ones own. Essentially, following Jesus – denying oneself – is living in servanthood. And true servanthood isn’t painful at all – it offers a different kind of life altogether, one I which the only ‘cost’ is a release from the constant (and ultimately unfulfillable) pressure to achieve ‘success’ in an increasingly material and competitive world.
History from the dawn of time proves that victory is impossible to achieve through force and domination over others. Perhaps it is time for the world to try Servant Love – love of our neighbour, whoever she or he may be. After all, that’s what Jesus asks of us – the reward being a closer walk with Him.
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